How many times has somebody judged the severity of your chronic illness by your appearance?
What about observing you perform one activity or task without issue?
These unfair judgments can lead to loss or denial of disability benefits. They can also be the reason your health insurance refuses to pay towards accessibility aids needed to function.
In my latest article for HU PsA, I talk about the pain and disabilities that cannot be seen. Because it is the unseen that is ruining our lives.
Although I wrote this article with psoriatic arthritis as the focal illness, the points I touch upon are relatable to pretty much any chronic illness. They definitely relate to all of mine!
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But You Don’t Look Sick
“But you don’t look sick!” Whenever I hear those words, I want to respond with: “That’s because I am sick, not ugly!”
Looks are deceiving. It doesn’t matter if people feel like those words will make us feel better. It is never right to judge a person’s health status based upon appearance. And here is why:
Psoriatic Arthritis Is More Than What You See
As I learned early on, a lack of visible symptoms does not mean that the disease is gone. When first diagnosed with psoriasis, it covered my body from head to toe. Soon I went from having a few breakouts to none.
I went so long between breakouts that I had put that diagnosis out of my mind. That was until I went to see a rheumatologist for fibromyalgia relief.